By Olaitan Ibrahim
To my dear @official2baba.There are not enough words in English to express how much I love you, so I won’t even try. To the Gentle, kind, loving, peaceful being, to the guy who would not intentionally hurt a fly.”
It can never be a crime to save yourself, to move on from where you were almost losing your life and soul, but you haven’t moved on; you have been captured, captured from inside the frying pan to an industrial furnace …so my heart bleeds.
It’s one thing for a girlfriend to snoop in your phone and read messages out of curiosity or for other relationship reasons (it can even come off as cute.) But a girlfriend who breaks into your phone to announce your divorce because she had doubts about you going through with it , who posts and deletes a picture of herself on your socials and asks Nigerians to help you beg her to marry her while you sleep.
A girl who clones your whatsapp , deletes messages she doesn’t like and replies to messages pretending to be you to steamrollher agendas, a control freak inside your emails and your accounts.
One who convinces you to abandon your management and businesses in Lagos and move to Abuja, just to become her arm candy and dragged all over Benin and to places the real you will definitely not go.
One who would make you defend lies and tolerate chaos , who would sabotage your business trips, …who would do a whole lot of rubbish ( I will not mention here out of shame )and hide under your name, who would adopt your Surname , tell strangers , and whoever cares to listen,that she is your wife while you are still legally married.